CFNM - Clothed Female Naked Male serving women. require a far more disciplined role for the men when interacting with the women as compared to all other CFNM events. Only women are invited as guests. Men are allowed entrance to the tea party solely as servers with specific duties outlined, and, only upon proving to the hostesses they understand the expectations placed upon them for providing those services. As tea servers, the men's appearance, demeanor and conduct must comply with the defined tea serving protocol set forth by the hostess. The men's appearance must be clean evidencing proper hygiene and they must be well groomed.Their dress often includes a bow tie, cuffs, polished shoes and matching dress socks, but otherwise completely nude.The men's naked buttocks and genitals are always on full display during the entire tea party, unless the hostess requires an apron for the times when the men are preparing and serving food.
The parlance of tea service includes terminology with specific meanings. Historically, an "afternoon tea" was a British tradition of sitting down in the afternoon and being served tea and scones whereas a "high-tea" referred to tea served the working class in the evening after work. Our CFNM require a far more disciplined role for the men when interacting with the women as compared to all other CFNM events. Only women are invited as guests. Men are allowed entrance to the tea party solely as servers with specific duties outlined, and, only upon proving to the hostesses they understand the expectations placed upon them for providing those services. Although both terms are used with CFNM tea parties to denote a formality of service, tea party devotees typically prefer "afternoon tea", as that term was commonly used in 19th century England to denote the elite standing of the ladies receiving the service.
1. I would like to attend a CFNM Tea Party what are the rules & expectations?
A. The men are there as servers to provide a service to the ladies or whatever services the ladies require. In this situation men do not draw attention to themselves and only speak when spoken to.
2. What is the men's attire?
A. The men attending our CFNM Ladies Tea Parties must be well groomed. Their attire should be white wrist cuffs, black shoes and socks along with a black bow tie. Neatly shaved hair groomed and nails clean as well as polished shoes. ( an inspection will be taken when you are dressed)
3. I am not a Dominant woman that enjoys subservient men can I attend the CFNM parties?
A. Definitely. One of the biggest reasons women enjoy CFNM parties is because they can view the men's "secrets" exposed while concurrently conversing with those naked men, yet always feeling secure within their own comfort zone knowing they will not have to reciprocate with such exposure. They also relish in putting men in an awkward, unfair position as they converse with these men, yet never intending anything to occur beyond that,nor do they have any interest in connecting with during such exchanges, and that inequity is not only obvious, but is openly enjoyed for that reason. In addition, some women simply enjoy being more empowered in a social setting, and no one can deny that when one person is stark naked while the other is not, the one that is clothed is clearly less exposed and vulnerable. For that reason all our CFNM parties welcome all women to come and join the fun.
4. I am not a Dominant woman can I still attend the CFNM parties?
A. Definitely. This is open to all women. One of the biggest reasons women enjoy CFNM parties is because they can view the men's "secrets" exposed while concurrently conversing with those naked men, yet always feeling secure within their own comfort zone knowing they will not have to reciprocate with such exposure.
5. Are the CFNM parties hosted so people can make money?
A. Hardly. Our CFNM parties are rarely hosted for profit but instead solely to provide women and men an experience they would otherwise never have in society.
6. How many guests will attend and what is the male - female ratio?
A. We always try to keep an even balance between the men and women sometimes 20 people attending sometimes less. The amount of guests coming depends on the goal of the party planners, the size of venue and how well orchestrated the announcements and guest solicitations have been. After a few parties and the word gets out, and the number of male RSVPs begin to exceed the number of female RSVPs. For this reason, the number of attendees we tend to capp so that the gender ratio is more balanced.
7. How are the men selected and how can I get onto to the list?
A. We have a screening process. Men that respond with interest to an opportunity must be vetted by the host, which sometimes includes an in-person interview with the hostesses. Even if you have reached out met one of the host it does not assure you'll get on the list. We use, or, organize the event through a some form of social media network. Regardless of whether it is a dating site, Facebook, Fetlife or some form of web-based classifieds, all men will need a profile page.The page should include enough information about you for the planners to want to meet. Men's profiles should show themselves clothed, smiling and with their faces revealed. They should reveal themselves engaged in normal activities, say biking or rock climbing. Your interests should show you enjoy your friends, dining, and, that you are capable of serving the ladies without expectation of sex. When you have done that you can apply via email: firstname.lastname@example.org once you have done so you will be responded to regarding your application.
8. What attire should the men wear?
A. You will need to well groomed and the attire to attend is white wrist cuffs, black socks & polished black shoes along with a black bow tie. When you arrive and are dressed you will be inspected by the host to ensure you are groomed properly.
9. I have a small penis should I apply?
A. Absolutely. We have never observed women selecting men to attend based upon penis size. First, penis size is usually more of a focus by men than it is by women. Second, women are more interested in what's attached to your penis and what lies between your ears. A man with a small dick but wonderful attitude will always win out over an overly endowed man with an arrogant and presumptuous attitude. Further, many women come to enjoy viewing the array of differences in all the attributes of the various men's nude bodies, including the sizes and shapes of their penises and balls. So if your size is inconsistent with the other men, you should view it as an opportunity to add pleasure to the ladies' viewing experience by giving them an additional yet different sampling of male genitalia to view. And you should know by now, it's the pleasure of the women that is always most important.
10. I am new to this do you welcome newbies?
A. Yes we do
11.How are women invited and how do they get on the list?
A. Because it is harder to attract enough women to maintain a balanced ratio, women have an easier time getting on the RSVP list. In general, all women are invited regardless of appearances, age, race, origins or sexual orientation. The only limitation would be a capacity cap due to the size of the venue.