Welcome to the world of CFNM ( clothed female naked males) as hosted every first Saturday of the month by the AcadaMay. This is a high tea protocol meeting of like minded women and the men that serve them. If you wish to join us if you are male or female do send us an email respectfully. The AcadaMay aim as always is to empower the female..
For years women have been sexually objectified in magazines, on TV and in daily life. But what happens when the roles are reversed, what happens when the tables are turned and men are sexually objectified by women? Most alternative events sexualize women, but there is one particular event that reverses the roles. That event is Clothed Female Naked Male or CFNM for short. CFNM by definition sexually objectifies men.
CFNM - Clothed Female Naked Male serving women. require a far more disciplined role for the men when interacting with the women as compared to all other CFNM events. Only women are invited as guests. Men are allowed entrance to the tea party solely as servers with specific duties outlined, and, only upon proving to the hostesses they understand the expectations placed upon them for providing those services. As tea servers, the men's appearance, demeanor and conduct must comply with the defined tea serving protocol set forth by the hostess. The men's appearance must be clean evidencing proper hygiene and they must be well groomed.Their dress often includes a bow tie, cuffs, polished shoes and matching dress socks, but otherwise completely nude.The men's naked buttocks and genitals are always on full display during the entire tea party, unless the hostess requires an apron for the times when the men are preparing and serving food.
The parlance of tea service includes terminology with specific meanings. Historically, an "afternoon tea" was a British tradition of sitting down in the afternoon and being served tea and scones whereas a "high-tea" referred to tea served the working class in the evening after work. Our CFNM require a far more disciplined role for the men when interacting with the women as compared to all other CFNM events. Only women are invited as guests. Men are allowed entrance to the tea party solely as servers with specific duties outlined, and, only upon proving to the hostesses they understand the expectations placed upon them for providing those services. Although both terms are used with CFNM tea parties to denote a formality of service, tea party devotees typically prefer "afternoon tea", as that term was commonly used in 19th century England to denote the elite standing of the ladies receiving the service.
The men are taught many do's and don'ts about providing service and when preparing tea and food. Their duties have them filling roles such as butler, waiter, chef, bartender, masseur, and entertainer. The services they provide may include serving tea and other libations; cooking and preparing hors d'oeuvres; providing dinner service; There is never any sexual contact nor BDSM "play" activities during the tea party, although some tea parties may offer play activities once tea service is over, but such activity is not deemed as being part of the tea party. We tend to play once the ladies has been served their wine.
"Women gather and socialize as they might anywhere. The only difference is males are subservient and naked providing service to the guests according to strict protocol and in a rigidly defined structure."